Why is it that an ISTP can’t just be successful without people calling him an INTJ?

I keep noticing a pattern in how personality types get discussed online. Why does someone get reclassified the moment they start doing well? Especially ISTPs. When they’re quiet, efficient, and consistent, people start calling them INTJs. One (37) moves through work silently but keeps everything on track. It gets labeled as “very INTJ energy.” Same person—solving problems fast without explaining the process—gets reinterpreted as “not a typical ISTP.” Once they become disciplined and structured, the label shifts again. From a reading perspective, this isn’t about typing accuracy. It’s about how quickly people assign meaning based on early signals and visible outcomes. And the same mechanism shows up in dating too—people get sorted into “continue” or “not interested” categories very early, often before anything real develops. It’s less about who you are, and more about how quickly you get placed. If this resonates, I often go deeper into how these early perception patterns form—and how they quietly shape outcomes before anything fully develops.