do any of your husbands lust after you?

Jul 23, 2026

I don’t think my partner realizes how much this hurts. It’s not that we never have intimacy. It’s that I never feel desired. There’s no flirting. No random messages. No “I can’t wait to see you.” No feeling that he’s genuinely attracted to me. Most of the time, intimacy feels like a routine. A quick touch. A simple question. Something that feels more like convenience than passion. The hardest part? I know he is capable of expressing desire. I’ve seen how he used to talk to people before me. The excitement. The flirting. The words. And I can’t help wondering: “Why did that version of him disappear with me?” I’ve tried being more playful. I’ve tried initiating. I’ve tried communicating. But after a while, you start asking yourself: “Am I missing romance… or am I missing feeling wanted?” Because sometimes the pain isn’t about what someone does. It’s about what you never receive. Have you ever been in a relationship where you loved someone, but still felt invisible?

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do any of your husbands lust after you?

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